PRIVATE MENTORSHIP
These screenshots are from a private 1-1 session in 2024 with an amazing woman called Jamie (the video recording is linked below on my YouTube channel with her permission), showing the use of art therapy which is one of the many tools used in the session itself. We spoke, made an art therapy image to represent her present state, did specific things to address emotional challenges and pains, and then Jamie created another image at the end of the session.
The private mentorship is in-depth one to one coaching designed for people struggling with unresolved trauma who prefer coaching privately.
It's also who also really feel called to heal themselves so they can they become a Change Maker and tangible healing force in the world too. It's for people who not only want to heal in a lasting way, but who also want to go the whole way and fully bring their healed self into their new life. Showing up in the world as their new whole and healed self through sharing the lessons of their own healing journey through whatever medium/form feels most right and authentic to them.
*Private Mentorship has the same structure as the Group Program, so Self-Study Program + Live Coaching, just the weekly live coaching call with Jacob is 1-1 and 100% private vs in a group.
Session Footage
Below are videos of me doing long-form in depth coaching with two amazing and courageous women who gave me permission to share the session recording publicly on my YouTube channel.
Every session is different of course, as each person is unique, but this is what it will be like during our mentorship sessions each week (though as they'll be repeating each week they'll be shorter in duration than these).
What Is the Trauma Healing Process and How Does the Program Work?
"Trauma is the embodied residue on the outside of the truth of who we are, which is a unique soul here on Earth (Source Of Unconditional Love*)." - Jacob Modak
The Trauma Healed Program has three primary phases:
Phase 1: Waking Up - We wake up to the truth of who we are and understand that we are not what happened to us, what happened to us is the residue on the outside of the truth of who we are. Like a beautiful statue totally covered in mud - it doesn't stop being a beautiful statue at it's core even if none of it can be see in the present moment.
Phase 2: Growing Up and Cleaning Up - Growing up is about our stage of consciousness, as we can't understand and heal from what happened to us from the same stage of consciousness we were at when it happened, we need to transcend to a higher level of seeing and understanding. Cleaning up is doing the shadow work and tangible practices to scrub all 'the residue' from the outside of the statue to anchor in our mental/emotional breakthroughs into our nervous system and cellular structure as new embodied habits so we have optimal alignment of Self-Perception, Self-Articulation, and Daily Actions so our physiology is also now not living in the past either and has caught up to our mind because our thoughts move faster than our physiology/matter.
Phase 3: Opening Up and Showing Up - This is now all about how we bring our new healed selves into our new life optimally informed by our healing journey. Opening up is opening up to our multiple intelligences and using them as the mediums through which our new healed self will show up in the world. Like Einstein said, "everyone is a genius, but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life thinking it's stupid". Maybe someone is a musical and linguistic genius and wants to be a holistic singer/songwriter, or someone else wants to build a company with a mission statement informed by their healing journey, or write books about what they went through and so on. Or someone just simply wants to walk down the street just beaming content smiles at everyone - it's an individual choice. And Showing Up is all about consciously showing up in the world in a real way and bringing this new life and self into the world for the betterment of humanity.
These 3 phases also line up with Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey. Phase 1 is like the call to adventure and meeting the mentor and meeting the threshold guardians and crossing the threshold into the new world. Phase 2 is all the road of trials which is really the toughest part and then getting the reward once we've not given up and pushed through. And then phase 3 is all the road back bringing the wisdom home in the return. Which we then see is an upward spiral and we now have a new hero's journey (within our macro hero's journey of our life) bringing our new life into the world, just this time we have life's challenges but without our own trauma and residue - so we can 'do life clean' this time, which is much more enjoyable.
*S.O.U.L Acronym Source Of Unconditional Love is from another coach who's name currently escapes me, but energetically I'm giving credit where it's due.
Are you the right person?
1 / Are you fully ready enough to commit to the healing process and mentorship?
This mentorship has a minimum coaching period of 6 months due to its depth.
2 / Are you called to truly heal yourself on all levels?
This mentorship is designed to support people who want to heal to the point where they're genuinely free of what they were suffering from, and are now able to lead themselves in their new life, and should they choose to, other people as well. To go this far requires a certain level of consistency, and at time, intensity, so you need to be prepared to 'go there' if needed. Healing can be feel like heaven, but it can also feel like hell at times too. This is the yin and yang of it which can't be avoided.
3 / Do you have enough time, energy, and finances to invest into this mentorship.
Even if the willingness to heal is there, having the structural support of enough time, energy, and finances means that your momentum won't be stopped prematurely. Trauma is exhausting, so don't worry if energy is low when you start, as it will naturally increase as your health rises through the coaching, but enough time in your schedule and enough finances to invest are the two foundation stones.
More Information About the Mentorship
1) Lifetime access to the core curriculum self-study program to complete.
2) A weekly 2hr< mentorship call to deepen knowledge and work through pain points, alongside consistent text and voice-note support in between the weekly sessions.
3) The current monthly investment for the private mentorship is £1000 per month, with a 6 month minimum commitment.
To apply for private mentorship, fill out the form below.
Once the form is received, you will be emailed back so a free and in depth consultation call can be scheduled where further details of the mentorship can be discussed.