The Trauma Healed Group Program & Community
What Is the Trauma Healing Process and How Does the Program Work?
"Trauma is the embodied residue on the outside of the truth of who we are, which is a unique soul here on Earth (Source Of Unconditional Love*)." - Jacob Modak
The Trauma Healed Program has three primary phases:
Phase 1: Waking Up - We wake up to the truth of who we are and understand that we are not what happened to us, what happened to us is the residue on the outside of the truth of who we are. Like a beautiful statue totally covered in mud - it doesn't stop being a beautiful statue at it's core even if none of it can be see in the present moment.
Phase 2: Growing Up and Cleaning Up - Growing up is about our stage of consciousness, as we can't understand and heal from what happened to us from the same stage of consciousness we were at when it happened, we need to transcend to a higher level of seeing and understanding. Cleaning up is doing the shadow work and tangible practices to scrub all 'the residue' from the outside of the statue to anchor in our mental/emotional breakthroughs into our nervous system and cellular structure as new embodied habits so we have optimal alignment of Self-Perception, Self-Articulation, and Daily Actions so our physiology is also now not living in the past either and has caught up to our mind because our thoughts move faster than our physiology/matter.
Phase 3: Opening Up and Showing Up - This is now all about how we bring our new healed selves into our new life optimally informed by our healing journey. Opening up is opening up to our multiple intelligences and using them as the mediums through which our new healed self will show up in the world. Like Einstein said, "everyone is a genius, but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life thinking it's stupid". Maybe someone is a musical and linguistic genius and wants to be a holistic singer/songwriter, or someone else wants to build a company with a mission statement informed by their healing journey, or write books about what they went through and so on. Or someone just simply wants to walk down the street just beaming content smiles at everyone - it's an individual choice. And Showing Up is all about consciously showing up in the world in a real way and bringing this new life and self into the world for the betterment of humanity.
These 3 phases also line up with Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey. Phase 1 is like the call to adventure and meeting the mentor and meeting the threshold guardians and crossing the threshold into the new world. Phase 2 is all the road of trials which is really the toughest part and then getting the reward once we've not given up and pushed through. And then phase 3 is all the road back bringing the wisdom home in the return. Which we then see is an upward spiral and we now have a new hero's journey (within our macro hero's journey of our life) bringing our new life into the world, just this time we have life's challenges but without our own trauma and residue - so we can 'do life clean' this time, which is much more enjoyable.
*S.O.U.L Acronym Source Of Unconditional Love is from another coach who's name currently escapes me, but energetically I'm giving credit where it's due.
Program FAQs:
How is the program delivered?
There are two main components:
1) the curriculum itself, which is pre-recorded, is exactly the same as the Self-Study version and to be gone through and watched at one's own pace, where the 3 phases are covered by specific practical modules, just the group program has live group coaching sessions with Jacob each week as well.
2) The weekly live long form Q&A call is where any questions you have about the material and your own experience putting it into practice can be answered. All calls are recorded and made available for you to watch back as many times as you wish.
Connection in the private online members space also allows for questions to be asked Mon-Fri and answered by me in between calls, so support is always there.
If I become a member, do I get lifetime access, and why is investing important?
Yes. The tuition investment of £1500, which is also available as 2, 3, or 4 monthly instalments, is not a subscription that renews. Once it's completed, it's done, and membership is for life!
This is built into the structure because the timeline for this healing work is individual to each person, and lifetime access allows each member to tailor the pace to their own life and have the time and space to stay consistent and truly go the whole way through all 3 phases of healing without the stress of a 'subscription renewal' possibly stopping their progress.
This isn't a sport with set start and end times. This is a Life-Practice, and so to be aligned with that, each member needs a lifetime's worth of space and support for the investment they make into doing this work.
Lifetime access for members is the only form of membership that made sense for me.
Why is investing important?
Once you have found the practitioner and the program you feel is right for you and it's a mutual good fit, saying "YES" to a program and investing your financial resources is essentially 'lesson 1' before the official Program Lesson One, because saying 'yes' to this work and investing financially (your tangible energetic commitment), means tangibly saying 'no' to your old self and starting the tangible process of letting it burn down, like the phoenix burning down before it rises up anew from those ashes.
And with our old self being an embodied habit essentially, and as "old habits die hard" as the saying goes, fear often arises just before this change with thoughts like "I want to heal because I'm genuinely living in hell, but I'm so scared of the unknown too so I don't know if I should join up even though I need help".
Why is being in a supportive community/group structure beneficial?
1) There's enough contact time to get your questions answered and be fully supported, but enough alone time to work through the modules on your own and learn how to understand and apply these holistic tools by oneself. This means that after enough time and practice, one learns how to manage their own healing themselves without being reliant. This is the foundation of someone's freedom.
2) Trauma can make people feel very isolated, but being able to interact with others who understand you without an explanation, because they went through the same thing is very healing in itself. "Oh, I'm not alone and people do understand me".
3) The positive energy created through this shared mutual support within the community allows the experience of 'other' and 'community' to be re-wired as something safe and healthy. Life is about relationships, and trauma can often cause that to feel threatening and unsafe. The community is also there to re-wire this so that the world, which is all about being around other people, and the other people in it, feels safe.
Of course we must be aware of danger and dangerous people too, so this doesn't mean being naive, but feeling safe around people in general means we can see and make the distinction and not feel afraid to connect and open up to people. Unresolved trauma tends to assume unconsciously that 'everyone' is unsafe so the only option I can trust is to isolate myself and not connect deeply or trust because I will get hurt, abused, or taken advantage of.
Joining Details are below
To join the group and start working your way through the course curriculum and speaking with me on the weekly live group calls right away, there's no need for a connection call first if you're already ready enough to join right away.
Just click the button below which will take you to the payment page.
After payment is complete you will automatically receive an email with your login information for the group which will allow you to start immediately.
I'm looking forward to us meeting/speaking/connecting in the group very soon and helping you heal the best way possible!
If you would prefer for us to speak on a connection call first however, as perhaps you have some specific questions that you wish to ask and just have a conversation first in order to feel comfortable etc, that's totally fine too.
You can schedule a day/time for us to have a call below. Once you've scheduled, you'll receive a confirmation email with a Zoom link for the day and time chosen.